When we are in a state of conflict, the danger is that instead of focussing on Jesus, we instead focus on our need for victory; our need to be right.
In Ephesians 4:4-6, Paul reminds us, ‘There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.’