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We might be familiar with the narcissist’s strategies of “sympathy seeking” and the “now-see-what-you-made-me-do blame shift.” The other day, I was reading about a strategy known as “love bombing” where there is a pretence of affection, intimacy, attention and trust....

Have you ever noticed this strange similarity between fear and faith? Fear asks us to believe in the worst-case scenario as if we're terrified of something that hasn't even happened yet. It's like our minds are playing tricks on us; convincing us that there is indeed...

It is true that some highly intelligent people are unsuccessful. So many brilliant minds do not reach their full potential. In short, intelligence is important, but it is not a guarantee of success. There is much more to success. #Success results when we show up every...

I read the other day that forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember (LB. Smedes).  This idea highlights how forgiveness isn't just about letting things slide; it's about embracing the opportunity to heal and rewrite our story. In other words,...

Change the plan if it doesn't work, but don’t change the goal. This saying is about not losing sight of where you are heading and why you want to go there. Sometimes things don’t work out exactly as you planned; there are often curveballs and setbacks. So, look for an...

Dr Lizette Mobey When we travel through life, we encounter many different trials and tribulations. Some of these experiences severely impact our lives and we find ourselves lost.  We find ourselves entrenched in and by the troubles and demands of the world...

Dr. Craig Mobey We have a problem. “How are you” and “fine thanks and you” has become our standard greeting no matter the occasion: weddings, family gatherings, funerals, or bumping into each other at the shops. It is a terrific way to break the otherwise awkward...

Dr Lizette Mobey Today marks the change of a season, the beginning of autumn.  Autumn is a season of wind, falling leaves and a deepening of colours. It is also an in-between season – the season following the warmth of summer and preceding the cold of...

Craig Mobey William Faulkner wrote, “The past is never gone. It is not even past.” To this, I add, “What you are doing now, will be the most recent event of your past.” Your past is where you made bad decisions, mistakes, and sinned. And sometimes affecting others as...